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Dating is hard and courtship is confusing. Why does it seem the men we want to approach us never do and the ones we don't, we can't seem to keep away? We've all been there in one way or another. Someone we do or don't know expresses interest in us and the feeling isn't mutual. So what do we do when the feeling isn't mutual? For lots of single women, sometimes lying is easier. There's the old "I have a boyfriend" trick, or grabbing your nearest girlfriend and saying "we're together." Any white lie will do in order to turn the hot pursuit, cold! But sometimes suitors can be persistent. They put up a good fight – and dodging their advances can be a lot like stepping into the boxing ring. Thankfully, this female MMA fighter, Racquel Todor was more than up for the fight. But she had no idea she would soon meet the stranger who would prove to be a worthy opponent.Stranger Had No Idea Who He Was About To "Hit On"Racquel Todor, the rising star in the MMA scene, found herself at the center of attention in an unexpected encounter that left her both amused and bemused. It was just another day for Todor, casually going about her business when a stranger approached her, undoubtedly unaware of the caliber of the woman he was about to meet.In her Instagram post that swiftly went viral, Todor recounted the scene with a wry sense of humor. The stranger's intentions were clear: he aimed to strike up a conversation, perhaps even ask her out. But Todor, like many women, wasn't exactly thrilled by the prospect. Her nonchalant eye roll spoke volumes, a silent protest against the all-too-familiar scenario of unsolicited advances.Navigating such encounters can feel like dodging punches in the ring for many women, but Todor's background as an MMA fighter gave her a unique perspective. While she may possess the skills to hold her own in a physical altercation, even she acknowledges the challenge of deflecting unwanted attention with grace and poise.The stranger, oblivious to Todor's skills, unwittingly stumbled into a situation where he was "hitting on" someone who could hit back — both literally and figuratively. Little did he know, his casual approach would soon lead to an unexpected twist that would leave him, and Todor's audience, utterly stunned.Watch Racquel Todor's Video: View this post on Instagram A post shared by Tee Rex (@dinosaur.arms) He Said: "I'm Safe To Reject" And It Made All The DifferenceNavigating the world of dating can feel like tiptoeing through a minefield, especially when faced with unwanted advances. Racquel Todor's recent encounter with a stranger hitting on her struck a chord with many women who have found themselves in similar situations.In the midst of this all-too-common scenario, the stranger's unexpected declaration — "I'm safe to reject" — was a game-changer. It offered Todor a lifeline, a way to gracefully decline without resorting to the usual evasive tactics.With those four simple words, the stranger shattered the stereotype of rejection leading to hostility or resentment. Instead, he created a space where Todor felt empowered to assert her boundaries without fear of backlash.This small but significant gesture highlights the importance of clear communication and mutual respect in romantic interactions. It's a reminder that consent should never be assumed and that everyone has the right to say no without guilt or judgment.Women Don't Hate Being "Hit On" — They Hate Feeling Like They Can't "Hit Back"Todor's experience prompts us to rethink the way we approach dating and relationships. Rather than viewing rejection as a personal affront, we should see it as an opportunity to foster mutual respect and understanding."It's not that I dislike being approached," Todor explains. "It's the feeling of being trapped, with no safe exit strategy." In a culture where the fear of rejection often overshadows genuine connection, Todor's encounter serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of mutual respect. By embracing a mindset of consent and autonomy, we can create a dating landscape where everyone feels valued and respected.So, the next time you find yourself in a similar situation, remember the significance of those four simple words: "I'm safe to reject." They may just pave the way for a more respectful and empowering approach to dating and relationships.