4 Awe-Inspiring Facts Everyone Should Know About Anthony Bourdain’s Life
Following news of the death of celebrity chef and travel journalist Anthony Bourdain on June 8, 2018, it's important to take a moment to celebrate a life centered around more than food. Anthony Bourdain's life celebrated people and learning.Warning: This article addresses substance abuse, self-harm and suicide.Food Was More Than Nourishment for BourdainAnthony Bourdain on Parts Unknown (Photo: CNN)From the earliest days of his TV career, Anthony Bourdain approached food in a way that was almost singular for his time.It wasn’t just about taste or presentation. And it certainly wasn’t all about fine ingredients. For Bourdain, food was a gateway into other cultures, histories and experiences. Food was a conversation-starter, a means to connect with other people, and a classroom. Food was always a story about a people’s past, present and future. It was political, social and economical. Bourdain always looked at the personal and collected history reflected in a dish or a culture’s cuisine.RELATED: 15 Inspiring Anthony Bourdain Quotes on Life and AdventureWhether it told a story of repression, a prolonged state of poverty or a deep cultural appreciation of a community before individual needs, food told story. And for Bourdain, getting to the heart of that story was the ultimate goal.Anthony Bourdain Was Never Afraid to Look at the Darker SidePhoto Credit: stock_photo_world / Shutterstock.comBourdain was never afraid to look into the mirror, recognize the error of his ways and strive to do better. He acknowledged his years-long struggle with addiction, and his complicity in the macho culture of the food and restaurant scene that allowed predators to go unpunished for years. RELATED: Solo Travel: The Psychological Benefits of a Journey of ExplorationHe also often spoke of his own privilege, and that of most westerners, compared to many of the places his travels took him. Witnessing hunger, poverty and war, Bourdain spoke of the necessity to treat local cultures with respect and humbleness, to partake when invited, but never assume, intrude or glorify. He wasn't afraid to question his own impact on places he visited, and on the people he met. expand=1 site_id=26461365]Anthony Bourdain Was an Ally in the #MeToo MovementAnthony Bourdain and Asia Argento on Parts Unknown (Photo: CNN)As the #MeToo movement spread, and gut-wrenching stories of abuse and assault emerged, Bourdain became one of the strongest and loudest male voices in support of the women who previously suffered in silence.RELATED: How to Travel the World Stress-FreeAs accusations surfaced against fellow celebrity chef Mario Batali, Bourdain immediately cut ties, and minced no words in calling out abusers.Actress and girlfriend Asia Argento was one of Harvey Weinstein’s many victims. When she came forward with her story, Bourdain stood steadfast by her, encouraging her and many other victims, showing unrelenting support.After Argento’s Cannes speech, in which she told a stunned room that Weinstein had sexually assaulted her at the festival’s 1997 edition, Bourdain told IndieWire, “I was so proud of her. It was absolutely fearless to walk right into the lion’s den and say what she said, the way she said it. I am honored to know someone who has the strength and fearlessness to do something like that.”He Encouraged Audiences Not to be Afraid of 'Others'President Obama and Anthony Bourdain, in Hanoi (Photo: CNN)Bourdain relished the opportunity to immerse himself in other cultures, or at least peek behind the door of otherness. He always urged readers and viewers to go out, unafraid, into the world, to meet and learn about different cultures. That's because, at the end of the day, we are all the same.RELATED: Intuitive Eating: A Complete Guide to Eating IntuitivelyWhether it was about enjoying a fusion dish at a five-star hotel, comfort food munched down during an Indian cricket match, or a bowl of noodles in Hanoi with President Barack Obama, the lesson at the end of a day was always remarkably simple: All of us just want to be safe, loved and happy.We all want to enjoy a good meal, drink and good conversation. There's no need to be afraid of each other. We can choose not to be afraid.Do we really want to travel in hermetically sealed popemobiles through the rural provinces of France, Mexico and the Fareast, eating only in Hard rock Cafes and McDonalds?Or do we want to eat without fear, tearing into the local stew, the humble taqueria’s mystery meat, the sincerely offered gift of a lightly grilled fish head? I know what I want. I want it all. I want to try everything once.ANTHONY BOURDAIN, KITCHEN CONFIDENTIALEditor’s Note: Struggling and feeling hopeless? You are not alone. Please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255).KEEPING READING: The Top 10 Travel Spots Where Inspiration Meets Destination
The First Wheelchair Performer to Win a Tony Emphasizes Our Need for Representation and Accessibility
A Tony win, especially one for best actress, is a crowning achievement for any performer. For Ali Stroker, who stars as Annie Ado in Broadway’s Oklahoma! revival, it’s a doubly significant moment. Not only was she recognized as Best Featured Actress in a Musical, but Stroker’s early June win also marked a historic first: she’s was the first wheelchair user to win the coveted award.In her acceptance speech, she dedicated the award to children with disabilities: “This award is for every kid who is watching tonight who has a disability, who has a limitation, who has a challenge, who has been waiting to see themselves represented in this arena. You are.” A car crash at only 2 years old left her paralyzed from the chest down Stroker grew up in Ridgewood, New Jersey with her parents and two siblings. Early on, Stroker was a driven child -- at age 7 she saw her first Broadway musical and instantly decided to become an actress. Nothing would stand in her way, and by the time she was attending Ridgewood High School, she was starring in the school’s musicals. She attended the acclaimed Millburn Summer Musical Theater Conservatory, and went on to become the first actress who uses a wheelchair to graduate from NYU’s prestigious Tisch Drama Department. Then came appearances on hit series Glee and its spin-off The Glee Project. Then Stroker broke the ultimate barrier in 2015, making her Broadway debut as the first actress who uses a wheelchair. And then of course, came the Tony, and another barrier broken.While Stroker’s win was widely celebrated for its impact on people with disabilities everywhere, it sharply brought into focus how little representation and accessibility there is on Broadway and the theater industry overall. Stroker was a big favorite for her category and yet neither Tony organizers, nor the venue itself thought of ensuring equal access for her. There was no ramp to the stageShowcasing the everyday struggles of people with mobility issues and the extra work and energy they need to expend in a world designed against their needs, Stroker had to come on stage to accept her award from backstage. After the cast of Oklahoma! performed as part of the ceremonies, Stroker had remain to backstage, behind the curtain and wait to see if she won her category. Later on, when her cast won Best Revival of a Musical, Stroker, the musical’s star, she could not go on stage with her castmates to accept her second award.As everyday people and other industry members with mobility challenges spoke up in support of her win and outrage for the Tony’s lack of accessibility, Stroker herself spoke up about the issue. She understood the logistical challenges of providing equal access, but that in itself shouldn’t be the final thought on accessibility in the theater world. “I think I had dream that maybe there could be a ramp built. It’s more than just a logistical thing – it’s saying that you are accepted here, in every part of you,” she told The New York Times.
3 Game-Changing Workplace Stressors You Can Cut Right Now
When summer vacation season is in full swing, it’s easy to blame tiredness, stress, and low attention span on scorching temperatures, the FOMO of your friends’ tropical vacations, and planning your own get-away. But if you’re so fried that you’re barely pushing through one day at a time at work, you might want to take a look at what’s really draining your energy levels. Irregular sleep patterns, stimulants like caffeine and alcohol, and poor diet and hydration may be the top energy zappers, but there’s plenty of hidden stressors sprinkled throughout our days, quietly draining energy levels. This is especially true for our professional lives, as technology now demands 24/7 availability, whether you’re at work or home. Cut these workplace stressors out ASAP:1. Constantly saying yes It’s great to be considered a reliable person in a professional environment. Being known as someone who’s willing to go the extra mile for great results, someone who’s there to help out a coworker in need, or someone who embraces challenging new tasks is a great way to excel.But constantly saying yes will also result in endless to-do lists, late nights and over-extended shifts, and most likely your own workload suffering. If every time you tick one item off in your calendar, two more appear, you’ll end up completely buried. That’s why you have to set firm boundaries, preferably from the get-go. When a coworker asks for help, you can still say yes, but add caveats like “I’ll be happy to help, just as soon as I finish my task,” making it clear that you’re willing to lend a hand, but your own workload takes priority.If you’re trying to get out of a constant cycle of yeses, it will take more time and negotiation to get others used to your new self-care routine — be ready for some careful negotiations.2. Uncomfortable clothingThis may come as a surprise, but clothing can be a massive background stressor, especially in a professional environment. While the rise of start-ups and the Millennial takeover of the global workforce has done away with much of workplace dress codes, many of us are still at war with our clothing throughout the day. Materials that don’t breathe will disrupt your body’s ability to regulate its temperature, while clothing that is too tight restricts blood flow and even proper breathing. Low oxygen levels result in decreased concentration and problem-solving capabilities, while overheating disrupts focus.But clothing doesn’t have to be too tight to elevate your background stress levels. An ill-fitting item of clothing can be just as disruptive: you’re either constantly pulling up your sleeves, readjusting your undergarments, tucking your shirt back in, rolling your socks back up -- you get stuck in an endless loop of fidgeting. Tight or loose-fitting shoes, high heels, or flip-flops can also drain your energy levels. Simply put, your body needs to expend more energy to get you from point A to point B if you’re perched on 6-inch heels or sliding around in flip-flops, your toes gripping the glorified slipper for dear life.3. Clutter and disorganization You might be thinking that the last thing you need is to spend time and energy you don’t have on organizing your life, but running around trying to find things, remembering meetings at the last minute and postponing projects right until their deadlines will cost you more energy, especially in the long run. If you leave all tasks and projects until the very last minute, it forces you into a work mode where you’re constantly putting out fires. Not only does this elevate your stress levels and cost you more energy, but when something unexpected actually happens, you simply won’t have the bandwidth to deal with it.But it isn't only your schedule that you need to invest a bit of time and planning into –- you should also take a critical look at your work station. You might not be consciously aware of its effects, but a messy, cluttered, or disorganized work area adds to stress, which in turn drains energy. You don’t have to go full minimalist on your work area, but even visual clutter is distracting. Try to keep only work essentials and a few personal items within your direct visual field -- everything else should be out of sight in a drawer or locker.
Learn to Love Your Stress by Turning Stress Damage Into Stress Mastery
It used to be that death and taxes were the only unavoidable things in life, but stress, it seems, has joined the club. As it turns out, however, stress has always been there –- and it can actually be a good thing. Or rather, stress can become something beyond good and bad. It can become a tool that, when used correctly, will give insight, teach lessons, and help you grow and evolve.Today, stress seems to be the root of all evil, from illness and burnout to beauty problems and poor sex lives. But Hans Selye, the “father of stress,” would have a bone to pick with that view. Selye, the Nobel-nominated endocrinologist who actually coined the term "stress," saw stress as a way of adapting to change. As Selye told the Canadian Medical Hall of Fame, even when we sleep, our heart keeps pumping, our lungs breathe, our adrenal system reacts to dreams. “The absence of stress is death,” he famously added.The dangers of minimizing, managing, and hoping stress goes away:So, if stress is an intrinsic part of life, why do we feel like it’s such a burden? According to executive director of The American Institute of Stress, Dr. Heidi Hanna, it’s all about redirecting the energy of stress. The way we deal with stress now is disruptive. “Instead of actually looking at what’s happening in the water, we just try to build a bigger boat,” says Hanna of the typical reaction to stress. “Minimize it, manage it, and hope it goes away,” are our most common avenues when it comes to facing stress, Hanna elaborated during a TEDx Talk. We minimize it by blaming it on external factors, or hide from it, hoping it will resolve itself or just disappear, or we justify not addressing the issue since it isn't as bad as other people’s struggles. We never truly remove stress or stressors from our lives-- we just move things around until it catches up with us-- or our loved ones when we lash out at them.What if stressing really is a blessing?What if there’s another way? Hanna, a published stress expert, challenges audiences to a paradigm shift: take the energy of stress and channel it into learning. Now that doesn’t mean cracking open a 7th grade calculus book next time your manager stresses you out. What it does challenge you to do is take a look at why you’re reacting with stress to a situation. Why are these circumstances making you feel like it’s more than you can handle? Why are you in your current situation and what do you need to do get out of it, feel better or avoid it repeating?Going from feeling overwhelmed to feeling positively challenged takes time and practice. It’s a skill to perfect in time, to get to a point where stress allows us to grow and evolve. But while the typical fight, flight, faint, or freeze reactions to a perceived danger overtire our brains, especially when we’re experiencing those responses over a prolonged period of time, shifting our stress into curiosity energizes the brain.Instead of becoming exhausted and cranky under the pressure of just reacting to stress, when we shift into curiosity mode, we allow the brain to relax into discovery: picking up new information, discovering fresh patterns of behavior, observing reactions in ourselves and others, increasing our brain’s plasticity, and growing our capability to evolve with our environment. So instead of fearing stress, we can embrace it as our guiding light to growth and a better understanding of ourselves. More tips for tackling stress:3 Signs Stress is Hurting Your Relationship — and How to Deal With Them4 Female Entrepreneurs on Their Mantras for Dealing With Stress7 Subtle Signs You May Actually Be Addicted to Stress3 Key Differences Between Stress and Anxiety