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When Kelly Osbourne Was Cheated On, She Made An Unlikely Friend
It’s hardly new information that being cheated on is a profound betrayal which can be extremely hurtful to the person on the receiving end. But while pain and heartbreak are universal, our experience of this world depends not only on what happens to us, but on how we choose to react. Kelly Osbourne has something to teach us in this regard.For instance, how many times have you seen characters on TV, or in real life, where the woman who’s been cheated on directs her anger at the ‘other woman’ instead of at her partner—this, even in cases where the ‘other woman’ didn’t know the guy in question was lying when he said he was single. The quickness with which many people demonize the woman while grudgingly but eventually forgiving the man is a common scenario, but unfortunately it doesn’t do anyone any favours.Known in part for her appearances on The Osbournes with her famous family, and her trademark purple hair, Kelly grew up traveling with her dad, Ozzy himself, when he toured. Maybe her early worldliness is the reason she didn’t immediately blame the outside factor when her fiancé Luke Worrall cheated on her.When Kelly found out, she lost itIt was 2011. Kelly, 26 at the time, dumped her fiancé, 21-year-old model Luke Worrall when she found out he was having a secret affair with a woman named Elle Schneider, 21, also a model. Elle has described how she was approached by Luke at an NYC club, where he communicated that he was single. The two exchanged numbers and spent the night together in her hotel room. After their night together, Luke and Elle lost touch. But a few months later, after regular video chats, the pair got together again for a few days in London. It was around tis time that Kelly discovered his messages to Elle. Heartbroken, she took to Twitter, writing, “Luke Worrall is the biggest piece of s**t,” and “He is the worst thing that ever happened to me...I have never felt heartbreak like this in my life. I only came home for Xmas to see him meanwhile he has been f*****g hundreds of girls as well as men behind my back.” Fair enough, Kelly. Fair enough. Elle too, had been lied to, and therefore also had a reaction. “From the moment I met him, he was telling me he loved me and he wanted us to get married,” she said. “But now I realize it was all lies. At the same time as he was professing his love to me, he was doing the same to Kelly.”To add to all of this, although the gender of the person a partner is cheating with shouldn’t necessarily matter, sometimes it changes the nuances of how we feel, particularly if it’s not something we expect. Kelly didn't know at first that Elle was awaiting gender reassignment surgery and had actually been born a man. As far as whether Worrall knew she was trans, “He knew instantaneously when he met me that night,” Elle has said. “He was definitely not turned off by it at any point.”She moved on in sisterhood and self-respectUltimately—enraged tweets aside—Osbourne had a rather cool way of handling betrayal. Rather than blaming the other woman, Kelly’s priorities were in order (in my humble opinion). First, she ditched her fiancé. Then, she decided to see what Elle had to say, so she reached out to her via Facebook. The two have since developed an unlikely friendship. “I gave her an idea of who I was,” said Elle. “I was never mean, I was never doubtful so she had to say I always believed in her. And I was always there to listen when she would cry or call me. And she told me 'you know I understand what he sees in you and I respect that'. I [have] no ill intent towards her. She and I are still good friends.” As for Worrall? Both women have cut ties with him.While society often tends to demonize the wrong people (women) when a partner cheats, Kelly Osbourne shows us how not to fall into the trap—you know, the one where one woman is pitted against another in the classic competitive ‘cat fight’ while the man fades away from all responsibility in the sidelines. Instead, Kelly was able to see clearly that a future with someone who was cheating and lying to her should be released rather than held onto, and she was open enough to have an honest conversation with Elle about what went down. Elle for her part, also had the sense to ditch him and was open to Kelly’s friendship. And why not? Because really, they had zero reasons not to trust each other. While it’s not everyone’s style to befriend the person their partner cheated with (nor should it be), it should be everyone’s style to focus their strong emotions on their partner rather than on the other woman—or man. We do ourselves justice when we take each and every relationship in our lives on its own integrity. There’s really no better way to make sure you surround yourself with good people—and ultimately, a loving partner that respects you.More inspiring celebrities: John Legend Reveals The Reason He Stopped Cheating–And It’s Not Chrissy TeigenAt 50, Jennifer Lopez Proves That Women Can Age and Continue to ThriveHow Kevin Hart Earned His Second Chance With Eniko Parrish After CheatingWhat Finally Convinced Jennifer Lopez That She Needed A Divorce From Marc Anthony
Nurse Keeps Her Promise And Adopts Her Patient's Son After She Dies
Tricia Somers was given a terrible diagnosis: she had terminal liver cancer. The dreadful news left her with one main worry: who would take care of her 8-year-old son, Wesley?Tricia was a single mother, and had no family that could take care of Wesley. Her own parents had already died. The only person she could turn to was her favourite nurse, who also shared her first name, Tricia Seaman. She trusted Seaman with all her heart.She felt a strong connection with her carerSomers described her oncology nurse at PinnacleHealth Hospital in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania as "an angel." The two had developed a bond, as the late Tricia was undergoing her numerous tests. Somers always felt safe under her care.I just felt comfort. It was almost like someone just put a warm blanket on me. I’ve never felt anything like that before.Tricia Somers in CBS NewsWhen she learned that her cancer was terminal, Nurse Seaman was the one person she felt she could trust with the care of her son. The dying woman decided she would make her special request on the last day at the hospital, before she was discharged.On that day, when the nurse visited Somers, she asked the fateful question.Tricia looked at me and said, ‘When I die, will you and your husband raise my son?’Tricia Seaman in US WeeklyAt first, the nurse was taken abackSeaman was understandingly shocked by the request and urged Somers to think more carefully about the plan. After all, they had only known each other for about 10 days."I didn't know what to say in that moment," said Seaman. "I told her I was flattered enough [that she] asked me. I said to her, 'Why don't you take a little time with this.' ... I was trying to be very diplomatic, everything in me said was saying 'Yes I'll do it.'"But Somers was convinced in her heart that Seaman was the one person she could trust.She later told me, ‘I knew from the very first moment that I met you that you were going to help me. I didn’t know how. I just knew you were going to help me.’Tricia Seaman She opened her home and her heartWhen Seaman told her husband Daniel about the idea of adopting Wesley, he simply responded with "We need to do something to help this lady."As Somers' condition deteriorated, the nurse knew she had to do more than just adopt her child.“Tricia was having trouble walking, she could barely move, and that was when we made arrangements to bring her here to our house,” Seaman tells Us. “That way she didn’t have to worry about trying to get food for Wesley, or worry about what medicine was due for herself. We took care of all of that.”So Tricia Somers moved into Seaman's house. Seaman and her husband were already parents to three teenage girls and a 10-year-old son. They had been in the process of becoming foster parents and had just been approved to be adoptive parents. On December 7, 2014, Somers passed away at the age of 45. At the same time, the Seamans became Wesley's legal guardians. The little boy found himself a new family, with the Seamans’ kids Anna, 20, Jenna, 18, Emma, 15, and Noah, 12, as his siblings. “He’s so fun. He’s so his mom. I mean, she was just so larger than life,” says Seaman, 43. “She and I had opposite personalities. I remember one time we were talking about our dating histories. Hers was very colorful, and mine was very boring. I was like, ‘I dated this person and that person and then I met Dan and we got married and had a family.’ She goes, ‘Is that it!? Well, that’s about as exciting as paint drying.’” She will never forget TriciaSeaman eventually wrote a book titled God Gave Me You about the patient who changed her life forever. Even if she is gone, her patient will always be with them.“Tricia’s a part of our lives and always will be,” Seaman tells Us. Even though she’s not here with us anymore, we sure didn’t lose, because knowing her and having the privilege to raise her son, what a gift. We’re just so much better for knowing them both.Tricia SeamanMore uplifting stories: This Little Boy’s Kindergarten Class Planned a Surprise For His Adoption DayWhen 10 Families Rejected This Sick Baby Girl, This Couple Stepped up to Adopt HerThis Nurse Delivered a Baby Boy — Then She Took Him HomeWhen Luke Bryan’s Sister Died, He Adopted Her Orphaned Children
Woman Becomes Nurse Practitioner At The Same Hospital She Used To Clean
Achieving your dreams has no age limit, but sometimes, life gets in the way and we forget just how possible it is. That's why stories of real life people who overcame all odds to achieve their goals are a strong reminders that we can do it, no matter what.Such is the story of Jaines Andrades, who in 10 years, went from custodian to nurse practitioner in the very same hospital she used to clean at. Her first entry in the medical fieldJaines used to be a fast food worker. Then, 10 years ago, she received a call from Baystate Medical. They granted her an interview and thus started her journey as a custodian, which was central to getting her to where she is today.Even if it was cleaning, as long as I was near patient care I’d be able to observe things. I thought it was a good idea.Jaines Andrades in Boston CBS LocalAlongside her hard work at the Springfield hospital, Jaines was also attending nursing school. She always knew she wanted to help people.When do you let a random stranger into your life? Into the most personal parts of your life? Rarely. As a nurse, we get that. I just really love the intimacy with people.Jaines Andrades10 years in the making--and worth itJaines values the 10-year journey that took her from custodian to nurse practitioner. She said that it let her to become the best version of herself, a more empathetic caregiver.It’s tough to be the person that cleans. If I had to go back and do it again, I would. It’s so worth it.Jaines AndradesAnd at the end of the day, Jaines feels even more thankful that her unorthodox journey has inspired people.“I’m so appreciative and like in awe that my story can inspire people,” Andrades said. “I’m so glad. If I can inspire anyone, that in itself made the journey worth it.”More uplifting stories:Millionaire Invites Homeless Couple To Live With Him In His $4 Million MansionHomeless Man Who Gave His Last £3 To Help Stranded Woman Gets Incredible RewardDomestic Abuse Survivor Marries The First Responder Who Saved Her LifeCouple Reunites Homeless Man With His Family After He Disappeared For 20 Years